Why Does Life Feel So Hard?

Have you ever looked at your life and wondered why everything feels so hard while others seem to just float through? Like no matter how kind you are, how much you try or how deeply you think, you still end up alone or broke or both? And meanwhile, the loud, shallow, and even selfish ones seem to be doing just fine. If you’ve ever had that feeling like you were somehow being punished for being good, for being different, for being aware, then this blog post is for you.

You’re Not Cursed — You’re Chosen

Because the truth is, you’re not cursed, you’re not unlucky, and you’re definitely not crazy. You might just be one of the chosen ones. And trust me, there’s a reason why your path looks so different from everyone else’s. Chosen ones walk a road that most people can’t even see. While others are chasing trends, status, and comfort, you’re probably out here searching for something deeper. Truth, purpose, peace, maybe even God.

Growth Comes Through Struggle

But here’s the hard part. When you’re chosen, your journey is not designed for comfort. It’s designed for growth. And real growth doesn’t happen in the spotlight. It happens in the shadows. That’s why you’re isolated. That’s why things feel heavy. That’s why money doesn’t flow to you like it does to others. Because the universe or God or whatever higher power you believe in is not trying to make your life easy. It’s trying to make your soul strong. Let’s be honest, being alone can feel like punishment, like no one gets you, like you’re watching the world live while you sit on the sidelines.

The Power of Silence and Separation

But here’s what most people don’t understand. Silence is where power grows. Think about it. Some of the greatest minds, healers, creators, and spiritual teachers in history were alone for long periods. Why? Because the noise of the world drowns out the voice of your soul. You’re being pulled away from the distractions so you can hear that inner calling. You’re being separated, not because you’re unwanted, but because you’re being prepared.

Money Struggles and Energy Alignment

And being broke, that’s another test. Not a test of your worth, but a test of your faith. It’s easy to feel confident when money is flowing. But who are you when it’s not? What do you believe about yourself when your bank account is empty? See, chosen ones often go through financial struggle not because they’re lazy, not because they lack talent, but because money is energy. And until your energy aligns with your purpose, the flow stays blocked.

Letting Go of What Was Never Meant for You

You’re being stripped of material attachments so you can stop chasing things that were never meant for you. So you can stop defining your value by society’s standards. So you can finally realize you are enough even when you have nothing. Now let’s pause here for a second. You might be thinking okay but why me? Why did I get this path? I didn’t ask to be different. I get it. Nobody wakes up one day and says yes. Please give me the hardest path, the most painful lessons, the deepest loneliness.

Realness Comes With a Cost

But chosen ones aren’t selected because they asked for it. They’re chosen because their soul is strong enough to carry the light through darkness. Because in a world full of copies, you have something real, something rare. And that realness, it costs something. It comes with silence, with rejection, with spiritual poverty before the abundance arrives.

Why You Feel Out of Place

Have you ever noticed how you struggle to relate to people now? Like small talk drains you. Gossip irritates you. Parties, crowds, fake smiles, they all just feel wrong. That’s not you being antisocial. That’s your energy shifting. You’re not better than anyone, but you’re no longer in sync with shallow environments. You crave depth. You want realness.

The Rarity of Real People

But here’s the hard part. Real people are rare. So you often feel like you’re walking alone through a world full of masks. And in that loneliness, something powerful starts to awaken, a deeper awareness, a quieter mind, a stronger intuition. All of that is molding you even when it hurts.

The Chosen Don’t Chase Purpose — They Become It

And let’s talk about purpose for a minute. You see, chosen ones don’t chase purpose the way others chase careers. You feel your way into it. You don’t want to do just any job. You want to serve. You want to heal. You want to create something that matters, but this path takes longer. It’s not a straight road. It’s more like walking through fog, trusting your next step, even when you can’t see the full picture.

Feeling Lost is Part of the Path

And during this time, people might call you lazy. They might think you’re lost. But deep down, you know you’re not meant to live a normal life. You just don’t know what the new life looks like yet. That in-between space, that’s sacred. That’s where the old you dies and the new you is born. But it’s also where doubt creeps in. Depression, confusion, comparison.

You’re Not Late — You’re Becoming

It’s so easy to look at others and think maybe I’m doing life wrong. But don’t fall for that. You’re not late. You’re not behind. You’re becoming. You’re shedding everything that was never truly you. And yes, it’s uncomfortable. Yes, it’s scary. But chosen ones are not meant to fit in. You’re meant to light up the spaces you eventually enter. And sometimes that light requires darkness first.

Awakening Hurts Before It Heals

Look, I won’t lie to you. This journey is lonely. There will be nights where you cry without knowing why. Days where your soul feels heavy for no reason. People will misunderstand you. Some will leave. Some will mock you. Some will think you’re weird or too much. But keep going. You’re not alone. You’re not broken. You’re awakening. And awakening isn’t pretty at first. It shatters your illusions. It breaks your old self. It humbles you to your knees.

Internal Growth Changes Everything

But then something happens. You begin to see differently, hear differently, love differently. And slowly your external life begins to match your internal growth. Even your relationship with money starts to shift. You stop chasing it from fear. You start attracting it through alignment. You don’t want wealth to flex anymore. You want it to serve, to heal, to create freedom, not just for you, but for others.

You Were Meant to Channel, Not Hoard

That’s what makes a chosen one different. You’re not here to hoard blessings. You’re here to channel them. But to be that channel, you must first be emptied. That’s why you lost so much. That’s why you struggled. That’s why it felt like life was stripping you bare because it was clearing the path for the power to flow through you.

Why People Left Your Life

And the people who left, the relationships that faded, that’s not a loss, that’s protection. Your vibrations started rising. And not everyone can breathe at your level. You didn’t lose them. You simply outgrew what was never rooted in truth.

Your Soul Can’t Fake It

When you’re chosen, your soul cannot fake it. It rejects anything that doesn’t serve your evolution. That’s why you can’t stay in dead jobs. That’s why you walk away from draining friendships. It’s not pride. It’s alignment. It’s your soul saying, “No more pretending.”

You’re Not Being Punished — You’re Being Prepared

Now, let’s circle back to something I said at the start. Remember when I said you’re not being punished? I meant that you’re being prepared. And preparation looks like isolation, like financial struggle, like emotional breakdowns, but also like deep healing, like awakening to your gifts, like realizing you’re more powerful than you were ever taught to believe.

Chosen Ones Are Quiet, But Powerful

Chosen ones are not the loudest in the room. They’re the ones who carry silent strength. They’re not here to fit the system. They’re here to change it. And change doesn’t happen from comfort. It happens through transformation.

If you’re reading this right now, it’s probably because your soul needed this reminder. You’re not crazy for feeling different. You’re not wrong for wanting more than just a paycheck, a relationship, and a routine. You’re not broken because you struggle to feel at home in this world. You feel different because you are different. And that’s okay.

You Were Meant to Be Different

You’re allowed to be the one who sees through the lies, the one who doesn’t settle, the one who chooses truth even when it hurts. That’s the path of a chosen one. But I want you to hear me on this. Your time is coming. The season of being alone and broke doesn’t last forever. It’s a phase, a sacred one, but not a permanent one.

Trust the Process

Keep trusting. Keep healing. Keep choosing your soul over society. Because every day you grow, even if you can’t see it yet, you’re aligning with the life that was always meant for you. And when that life arrives, you’ll understand why nothing else worked, why you were kept apart, why you had to go without. It was all leading here.

Keep Going — You’re Chosen

So don’t give up. Don’t lose heart. Don’t shrink to fit into a world you were born to awaken. You’re not here to chase anything. You’re here to remember who you are, to embody it, to walk in

it, even when no one claps, even when no one sees, because one day they will. And when they do, it won’t be because you forced it. It’ll be because your energy, your light, your truth spoke louder than words ever could.

So if you’re alone, trust the silence. If you’re broke, trust the process. If you’re tired, rest, but don’t quit. The pain you feel today is shaping the purpose you’ll live tomorrow. You’re not late. You’re right on time. You’re not lost. You’re being guided. You’re not cursed. You’re chosen. And that, my friend, makes all the difference.